Train Your Brain with Gratitude | Brian J. Cole, MD, MBA

As we celebrate Thanksgiving this month, we naturally slow down, gather, and reflect on what matters most. . But gratitude isn’t just a seasonal ritual — it’s a neurologic training tool. As physicians and performance-minded individuals, we often focus on reps, recovery, mobility, fuel. Yet there is a daily practice just as powerful that requires no gym, equipment, or sweat: intentional gratitude.

Research from Harvard Medical School shows that consistent gratitude practice can rewire the brain in just a matter of weeks, strengthening neural pathways linked to emotional regulation, optimism, and resilience. In other words, gratitude isn’t a mood booster — it’s brain training.

The Neuroscience of Thanks

Gratitude activates the brain’s reward circuitry, increasing dopamine and serotonin — neurotransmitters associated with learning, motivation, and emotional well-being. Functional MRI studies also show heightened activity in the prefrontal cortex, the region involved in emotional regulation and decision-making.

Like progressive overload in strength training, repeated gratitude “reps” deepen these neural pathways. Over time, the brain learns to detect and prioritize positive cues in the environment. Stress response softens, sleep improves, and the threat-focused survival system gets balanced by a mindset oriented toward possibility, not scarcity. This isn’t wishful thinking — it’s neuroplasticity in action.

How to Build Your Gratitude Muscle

Just like fitness, the secret is consistency over intensity. No need for grand revelations or perfect journaling — start small and specific. Here are a few simple ways to practice gratitude:

  • Start small. Each evening, take 10 minutes to write down just three specific things you were grateful for that day.
  • Make them precise and real. Not “my family,” but “my daughter’s smile at breakfast.” Not “health,” but “my legs carried me on a peaceful walk this morning.” Gratitude thrives in detail.
  • Let tiny moments count. A warm cup of coffee. A text that made you laugh. A deep breath that felt grounding. A dog greeting you at the door. A moment when you helped someone — or someone helped you.
  • Do this consistently for three weeks. Your brain will begin to change: stress softens, sleep improves, relationships feel warmer, and your default thinking shifts from scarcity toward possibility.

Final Thoughts

As we celebrate Thanksgiving this month, savor the big moments — full tables, family warmth, traditions, and shared meals — but also the subtle ones. Gratitude isn’t about ignoring challenges. It’s about strengthening the neural pathways that help us remain grounded, hopeful, and connected — even in difficulty. And like any muscle, the more you exercise it, the more powerful it becomes.

Reference:

Chen, Y., Okereke, O. I., Kim, E. S., Tiemeier, H., Kubzansky, L. D., & VanderWeele, T. J. (2024). Gratitude and Mortality Among Older U.S. Female Nurses.JAMA Psychiatry.

About the Author:

Brian J. Cole, MD, MBA, is a nationally recognized orthopedic sports medicine surgeon at Midwest Orthopaedics at Rush and a Professor at Rush University Medical Center. He serves as Managing Partner of Midwest Orthopaedics, Acting Chair of the Department, and Section Head of the Cartilage Research and Restoration Center. Consistently named among the "Best Doctors in America" since 2004 and "Top Doctors" in the Chicago metro area since 2003, Dr. Cole was featured on the cover of Chicago Magazine as "Chicago's Top Doctor" in 2006 and named NBA Team Physician of the Year in 2009. Orthopedics This Week has ranked him among the top 20 sports medicine, knee, and shoulder specialists for the past five years. He is the head team physician for the Chicago Bulls and co-team physician for the Chicago White Sox and DePaul University, bringing elite-level care to athletes and patients alike.